Attract YOUR soul mate with the Law of Attraction-no matter your age!
Moving past divorce
Many of us have been devastated by a painful divorce. At a certain age, you’ve got about a 50% chance of that being part of your history. I know. I’ve been there. I sat stuck in the mire for awhile (which is a healthy stage) and then I started investigating ways to move on. I found the Law of Attraction during this time and decided that I wanted real, authentic love back in my life. But there are some things you can do to make your transition to your new life easier.
Give yourself time to grieve. Grief has no shelf life but mental health therapists say you can take the time to grieve post trauma or grief will track you down later. Give yourself the time you need to cry, sleep, suffer. This is part of the human condition. Feel free to find a therapist to help you sort through this time and to ensure that you haven’t slipped into a real depression.
Remember it takes two people to cause a marriage to fail. Don’t pull all of the guilt and shame of its demise onto yourself. Realize that just because this (or several) relationships have failed you are not sentenced to a lifetime without love! I’m here to teach you the Law of Attraction tools to reinvent yourself AND to find your real soul mate.
Be sure to focus on the good times you have in the marriage. Its end doesn’t mean those times were false. Celebrate what you had together (perhaps children?).
Plan a private (or public) ceremony of some kind that signifies that this phase of your life is over and you are ready to rise up and conquer! We have ceremonies for so many things, happy and sad, yet no real event accompanies the end of a marriage. Make it positive! While you are rebuilding your life read books like How to Survive the Loss of a Love and Sex and the Universe to help you move forward!
Give yourself time to grieve. Grief has no shelf life but mental health therapists say you can take the time to grieve post trauma or grief will track you down later. Give yourself the time you need to cry, sleep, suffer. This is part of the human condition. Feel free to find a therapist to help you sort through this time and to ensure that you haven’t slipped into a real depression.
Remember it takes two people to cause a marriage to fail. Don’t pull all of the guilt and shame of its demise onto yourself. Realize that just because this (or several) relationships have failed you are not sentenced to a lifetime without love! I’m here to teach you the Law of Attraction tools to reinvent yourself AND to find your real soul mate.
Be sure to focus on the good times you have in the marriage. Its end doesn’t mean those times were false. Celebrate what you had together (perhaps children?).
Plan a private (or public) ceremony of some kind that signifies that this phase of your life is over and you are ready to rise up and conquer! We have ceremonies for so many things, happy and sad, yet no real event accompanies the end of a marriage. Make it positive! While you are rebuilding your life read books like How to Survive the Loss of a Love and Sex and the Universe to help you move forward!
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